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James Mills's avatar

I remember one time on a dating app... I was talking to a girl and I said "I don't even notice how women look. You know what draws me to women? The books they like. Their kindness. I don't even notice when women are pretty or have great bodies." She said "wow! That's great. I wish more guys were like you." I was amazed. I was being deliberately absurd and sarcastic, and I told her so. The idea that women could believe that ANY heterosexual man sees women in that way was shocking to me. That was an early lesson (of many) that women have absolutely no idea how men think. They're often not even honest about what THEY want. They definitely don't want to hear that kind of honesty from a man. This made me think of that for some reason.

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DeepLeftAnalysis🔸's avatar

When women can't trust men, men are forced to act feminine in order to win the trust of women. This statement can be generalized further, to say: when humans cannot trust other humans, they are forced to act more feminine to win trust. In a high-trust society, people can act more masculine, stoic, aggressive, terse, Spartan. In a low-trust society, people are forced to be more emotive, apologetic, polite, performative, loquacious, vulnerable, and passive. This is the Zagrebbi Theory of Wokeness in a nutshell.

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