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Peter Kriens's avatar

Hmm, you touch so many subjects it could be 10 posts ...

Main beef that I understand is that we're more happy than twitter shows. Which is generally true, there is a lack of appreciation how well off we are historically. I would be one of the happier people in the surveys and I've added all through my life to the GDP.

However, my world did change over the past decade in a way I did not enjoy. I don't nearly like as much to work for companies (as a consultant) as I used to be. Many topics are now off limits and the thing that so many males (tended to?) enjoy thoroughly (cajoling, teasing, hard work, brutally holding others to high standards, prioritizing topic over comfort, flirting, and joking) have all become problematic. Not only are more people taking offense, snitching, which used to be one of the strongest taboos among men, has become common.

Also, in my own world I see way too many unhappy, long educated, anxious, neurotic, and depressed women between 20 and 40. Almost all have decided to remain barren. True, many women of my age cohort struggled with this question over my life but their respect for the ticking biological clock tended to save them (and society) in time from becoming a female Peter Pan. And without children we lose one of the main motivators of men that made our fathers and grandfathers work hard, often in teidous jobs, to provide for the family or even go to war. Without this motivator, Peter Pan's can survive with surprisingly little effort to support their basic need for sex (porn), food (takeaway), and comradery (gaming).

I am not counting anymore on a lot of support when I hit 80 in 15 years, there will not be enough people to provide the services & tax income at the level of today. Just that we need to educate 2-3 female doctors for 1 traditional male doctor spells doom with 65% women in university. And I predict that the need will only increase, even with the many boomers dying off in the next 2 decades. The current young, without the responsibility and joy of children that metamorphosed previous generations into adults, will need more support but discover they severely lack the skilled people to run a society on the level we have today. I can already see it today, but I fear it might become dystopian.

So I am pretty happy today since I can stay out of offices but I am very worried for the world my only grandson will grow up in.

A happy society is a society where old men plant trees for their offspring to sit in the shade. Offspring they will never ever see.

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Mike's avatar

My hypothesis is that religion's contribution to happiness isn't that it gives people a deep meaning but that it gets people to socialize in person and make friends. I'd also guess this is the main reason technology has contributed to unhappiness, a number of people have gotten addicted and stopped going out and having in-person interactions. This would explain the COVID's disastrous impact on mental health. This is also why sports, cars, music, politics, art and volunteering can fill the void fine. We just need to hang with our boys.

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