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Sam Atis's avatar

IMO you could've done a little more work here, lots seems misleading or slightly wrong. Adele isn't particularly fat these days, Ariana Grande isn't hispanic as far as I'm aware, and it seems like there are quite a few women who are neither aggressively sexual nor completely asexual - in the current Billboard 100 you can make the case for Dua Lipa, Olivia Rodrigo, and TS at the very minimum.

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Joseph Joestar's avatar

Another note: the role of the sexually alluring, highly feminine female pop star is commonly filled by anime or Japanese pop stars these days. It’s a common joke in gaming circles that women in games made by Japanese devs are pretty, while Western devs seem to intentionally make the female characters less attractive.

I think the trends you’ve noticed in female pop music reflect a general discomfort for what female sexuality is actually like. We’re only comfortable with women who exhibit a more male-typical sexuality, while more conventional women are sidelined to making angsty songs about how wronged they are by douchebag men. To be fair, I do think hook up culture is worse for more typical women than for any other group, so it makes sense to me that the women with more conventional sexuality are all unhappy.

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