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Laura Creighton's avatar

I think that your division into masculine (and presumably feminine) virtues is part of the problem. We have too many cowards in society, period, and a good many women think that they get a free pass on this, because courage is somebody else's problem. Or worse, that there _are_ courageous people is the problem, in a world where cowardice is called a virtue, such as 'being agreeable'. Courage is for everybody. Daughters need to be taught how to be brave, too.

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Jeff Giesea's avatar

I love this essay. So much here. Minor point: The masculine virtue is a combination of speaking truthfully and openly under one’s own name combined with some sense of honor, epistemic integrity, and civic virtue. Conflating this with free speech alone seems off. Free speech is the foundation for this virtue but not the virtue itself.

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